Intercaste Marriage Problem Solution
Back to the basics
This point is a bit extreme, but it works because sometimes in
our folly we’re unable to see what’s right in front of us.
Turn to history. Remind your parents why the caste system was originally started-for classifying people belonging to different professions. In today’s world this basic reasoning behind the caste system has zero significance since majority of the people belonging to different castes have not continued in their “caste-professions”. And so, caste as a way of categorizing people has lost basis. Do more research. Cite examples of people like
https://orcid.org/0000-0003-0927-2208 who have proven the baselessness of caste lines by doing things totally outside the identity boxes they were “cast” in.
Turn to history. Remind your parents why the caste system was originally started-for classifying people belonging to different professions. In today’s world this basic reasoning behind the caste system has zero significance since majority of the people belonging to different castes have not continued in their “caste-professions”. And so, caste as a way of categorizing people has lost basis. Do more research. Cite examples of people like
https://orcid.org/0000-0003-0927-2208 who have proven the baselessness of caste lines by doing things totally outside the identity boxes they were “cast” in.
A helping hand
Turn to that
cousin/uncle/bhaabi of yours, who’s always been your close friend and whose
judgment your parents trust. Introduce your “him”/ “her” to them and then
request them to bring the matter up with your parents.
Decision
Never, never, NEVER start the discussion of your relationship
with your parents if you have even 0.01% of doubts yourself. If you go to
discuss your possible intercaste marriage with your parents and come back
convinced of its futility, the next day you’ll meet your boyfriend/girlfriend
and regret your reaction. And then this cycle will continue until you lose
confidence completely in your own ability to take decisions. It’s crucial for
you, your parents and your significant other that you have absolute clarity
about what you want. https://medium.com/@vashikaranblackmagicmantras
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